Dear past me, Too often I’m asked to write to future me, or I guess right now it’s present me. Time’ll mess you up, homie. …
The Positive Power of Saying “No”
“No” is a very powerful word when it comes to your relationships with others — and with yourself. While the word “no” might trigger thoughts …
Calling All Seniors (In High School, That Is) — Need Some Advice?
Common App, rec letters, personal statements, and APs galore! If any of that sounds familiar, chances are that you’re a rising senior in high school …
A Prayer for My Imaginary Little Sister by Shannon J. Curtin
Congratulations, Happy Birthday, Merry Christmas, little sister, here’s my wish list. My litany of lessons, my book of prayers, the incantations I say in your …
A Letter to You
To the Ask Lara readers who read and believe in my words, this one is for you… This past week I had the honor of going …
For All the Girls with Messy Hearts, and to the Men Whose Skin Have Tasted Mine by Sade Andria Zabala
Let’s be honest here — I am not the girl men fall in love with. I am the girl that men want to fuck. I …
Dear 15-Year-Old Psych Ward Me
Dear 15-Year-Old Psych Ward Me, I’m the person you’ve been imagining. I’m the one you write about in your journal, the one you think …
5 Tips for a Smoother Breakup
Relationships can be very exciting experiences, and they’re a necessary part of our individual growth. However, not every relationship lasts forever, and breakups can really bring …
Student vs. Professional: Who Would You Hire?
I have often felt a little guilty when I have the following conversation with students: Student: Do you think it’s more appropriate for me to …